well, its simple, the girls don't want a nice guy. they want someone to hit them over the head to show them who is boss, hump them twice a day and what u have not. the nice guys always get the same line over and over again, 'you're a nice guy but i can't see us more than friends, you deserve someone better.' I bet every guy out there might have got that line at least twice in your life. the next thing u know it, she's out with a total jerk, why? because he's drives and comes from a rich family. so in return, she bangs him every now and then, just to get the gucci bag that she saw the other day. when times are bad, she would call you for a shoulder to cry on and thats abt it, you don't see her till the next break up. she lets you know that you have been a wonderful friend and hopes she finds someone like you one day but right now she's enjoying the high life, sex, drugs and rock n roll. while you sit at home and wonder whats on tv, hoping for a phone call from her which never happens. but yet, you still hold a torch for her, hoping that one day she'll come to know just how much you love her.
years pass and one fine day she lets you know that she likes you because you have been there all her life. she has been thinking to herself alot lately, and it seems that you always pop up in the mind. somehow everything seems so perfect with you in the picture and she wonders how can she be so blind all these years. she hugs you and lets you know that she loves you and wish to spend the rest of her life with you. you take a step back from her and tells her that you have found someone and the both of you are planning to engaged soon and hope she can make it for the engagement. tears forms up in her eyes and she realised that she has only herself to blame. for she didnt realise what she had until its gone and so the story ends.
if only you gals take the time to look, you will find the ones you're looking for. time, media and culture have changed all of us. so stop lamenting that guys aren't great at all, it just that you have put ur hopes way too high. if your mom had that same hopes, you wouldn't be here now trust me! yes, i do open doors, pull out chairs, pay for meals and send them home so why am i still single? you tell me! all those things are just b.s., the end of the day its abt a bmw and a condo. so why do we have to be somebody we're not! yes, its cool to have a car and a condo, but some guys are just not cut out for those or wld prefer to lead a simple life. do u want someone who lives in a condo, drives a merc but spends his entire life in the office....trying to pay off the merc and condo??
i don't hate my life, yea maybe being short but guess i got to live with it. at least i got all my features intact. i did see a kid abt 5 yrs old at paris ris interchange abt a few years ago, the front of his face were smashed in. a handome chap actually, but sad that he got live his life like that. so i tell you, thank God for what you have and stop worrying that you dont have enuff. i know of some guys/girls who have almost everything but still argue that life sucks big time. if only we had an exchange program with a third world country, we could sent them there. it will be a lesson well learnt. for those, who thinks Singapore is boring and wld rather live someone else. please do, you would only come back to sg a year later. you guys have not seen life until you have seen the poorer side of a country and the conditions that these people live in. you will thank god and yr parents for the bungalow u live in. heck, you just have to vist a old estate in singapore and you will get transported into another time. you ask yourself how can these old folks live in their cramp three room flat all alone. one day it will happen to you, your kids will probably leave you in the old age home, coz u did that to their grandparents. its a cycle, its the future of things to come.
i am contented with what i have, my life, my friends and the things i have. if i ever get hitch, it will be a blessing but i am not gonna worry about not getting hitched. enjoy life when it is due.
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